STRUCTURIZED::Friends
Sep. 14th, 2005 12:29 pm![[personal profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/silk/identity/user.png){kind=small}
towndwarf(Этот текст был написан месяц назад, сначала думал не постить)
Friend/fellow/buddy/dude/chap/mate/soul mate/colleague/peer/...
All these words describe some mental connection.
A long-long time ago, say at age of 10, I started with dividing the friendship world into 3 categories:
1. friends, which are more like family; Sometimes they ARE family.
2. friends, which are closest to me. The people, which I'd like to have as relatives. The people, who will help me without preconditions. The people, I'd like to help anytime.
3. friends, who are 'the circle of life', my communication peers, my milieu. The people, I feel good with, the people, I'd like to go out with.
Later I discovered another categories:
4. by passersy - the people, who are my friends only because I have something, they need or they're going in parallel with my way.
5. virtual-friends - people, who are my virtual friends or we even met each other, but had no time or possibility to become real friends.
It's easy to classify something, only time is necessary to put it on scales.
So, Family: my parents, wife (![[livejournal.com profile]](https://www.dreamwidth.org/img/external/lj-userinfo.gif)
simplyme777), ex-wife (jushaa) and her parents. Since they're friends and more or less 'family'; breakphreak was also like a family-member for us with jushaa for almost 3-4 years.
All the other categories: I just don't want to spot on people. :-)
In any case, I'd like to mentiondronik, nahman, slade_, zelestina, as those, who helped me a lot. Sometimes I don't even know how to pay them back :-).
Thanks ;-)
Friend/fellow/buddy/dude/chap/mate/soul mate/colleague/peer/...
All these words describe some mental connection.
A long-long time ago, say at age of 10, I started with dividing the friendship world into 3 categories:
1. friends, which are more like family; Sometimes they ARE family.
2. friends, which are closest to me. The people, which I'd like to have as relatives. The people, who will help me without preconditions. The people, I'd like to help anytime.
3. friends, who are 'the circle of life', my communication peers, my milieu. The people, I feel good with, the people, I'd like to go out with.
Later I discovered another categories:
4. by passersy - the people, who are my friends only because I have something, they need or they're going in parallel with my way.
5. virtual-friends - people, who are my virtual friends or we even met each other, but had no time or possibility to become real friends.
It's easy to classify something, only time is necessary to put it on scales.
So, Family: my parents, wife (
simplyme777), ex-wife (jushaa) and her parents. Since they're friends and more or less 'family'; breakphreak was also like a family-member for us with jushaa for almost 3-4 years.All the other categories: I just don't want to spot on people. :-)
In any case, I'd like to mention
dronik, nahman, slade_, zelestina, as those, who helped me a lot. Sometimes I don't even know how to pay them back :-).Thanks ;-)